{ "1": { "question_text": "You and someone else experienced the same moment together and perceive it completely differently. Who is right?", "answers": { "1": "There is a version that is closer to what really happened. This can be worked out.", "2": "The truth lies in the middle.", "3": "Both. Everyone experiences things differently and that is their truth.", "4": "I rely on my perception.", "5": "Who is right is less important than what you make of it." } }, "2": { "question_text": "How do you feel about scientific findings?", "answers": { "1": "I trust science completely.", "2": "I take a closer look at the study situation and judge accordingly.", "3": "It depends on the topic, for some I trust research, for others I trust more my own experience.", "4": "I form my own judgment; common sense and my own experience often count for more than studies.", "5": "I generally have little trust in scientific results." } }, "3": { "question_text": "What is the meaning of life for you?", "answers": { "1": "Love & connection", "2": "Faith & Transcendence", "3": "Contribution & Community", "4": "Development & enjoyment", "5": "Knowledge & skills", "6": "Life & Continuity", "7": "I don't know it." } }, "4": { "question_text": "What do you want most in your life?", "answers": { "1": "Family and close people. Be there for them and live together.", "2": "Health and satisfaction. Live well, enjoy beautiful moments and be happy.", "3": "Freedom. My life according to my own rules, without expectations from outside.", "4": "Build something. A work, a company, something that I am proud to call my own.", "5": "Experience the world. Travel, grow, meet new people and places.", "6": "Give something back. Enabling people, animals or the environment to live a better life.", "7": "Be visible. Making an impression, representing something, being seen for who I am.", "8": "I don't give it much thought. I just live." } }, "5": { "question_text": "Hand on heart, do you like people?", "answers": { "1": "Yes, I believe in the good in people.", "2": "Basically yes, with all the flaws.", "3": "Partly, partly, depends entirely on the person.", "4": "Rather not, with a few exceptions.", "5": "No, people are difficult." } }, "6": { "question_text": "Do you believe in a higher power or God and what role does that play in your life?", "answers": { "1": "No. For me there is nothing like that.", "2": "For me, the power lies in physics and the laws of science.", "3": "Probably not, but I can't rule it out completely.", "4": "I don't know it. I consciously leave the question open and don't constantly question it.", "5": "I believe there is something there, even if I can't explain it.", "6": "Yes, I believe in higher powers or energies. Fate, karma, an interconnectedness of everything, even without classical religion.", "7": "Yes, and I consciously live by it, with practices or rituals that are important to me.", "8": "Yes, and it has a central influence on my everyday life. Prayer, community or faith as an integral part of my life." } }, "7": { "question_text": "Why is there anything at all and not just nothing at all?", "answers": { "1": "There is an intention behind it, a creator, a meaning.", "2": "I think about it sometimes, but can't find an answer and don't bother thinking about it.", "3": "This question doesn't concern me. I live in the now.", "4": "I don't know, but the question greatly influences my daily approach to life.", "5": "Only natural science can explain this." } }, "8": { "question_text": "Head and stomach contradict each other. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I follow the head. Feelings can be deceiving.", "2": "I think through what makes sense, the stomach is the final check.", "3": "I first feel what feels right and then see if it makes sense.", "4": "I trust my intuition. Too much thinking has often made me wrong.", "5": "As long as my head and gut don't agree, I won't make a decision." } }, "9": { "question_text": "Where do you live most in your mind?", "answers": { "1": "In memories. Past moments and people accompany me every day.", "2": "In the now. What is today matters more than yesterday or tomorrow.", "3": "In plans. I live towards something, the present is often a means to an end.", "4": "I don't know it. I just live." } }, "10": { "question_text": "When something goes wrong in your life, what is usually the reason?", "answers": { "1": "Fate. Nothing happens by chance.", "2": "The circumstances. Not everyone starts with the same cards.", "3": "Sometimes me, sometimes the circumstances. I look at this on a case by case basis.", "4": "Myself. I am responsible for my life." } }, "11": { "question_text": "Do you believe that the world is fundamentally fair?", "answers": { "1": "No. Happiness and unhappiness happen to people randomly, regardless of what they do.", "2": "Partly partly. Some of it is bad luck, some of it is your own decisions.", "3": "Yes. Anyone who does good and makes an effort will get it back in the long term." } }, "12": { "question_text": "How do you feel about children and parenting?", "answers": { "1": "Very positive. Children mean joy and are simply part of life.", "2": "Parenthood gives meaning and continuity to life. Passing on values ​​and experiences gives perspective and orientation.", "3": "I'm neutral about it. It is a personal decision without much philosophical superstructure.", "4": "I find it an ethically difficult question. Given climate change and the world situation, it is irresponsible to bring a child into this uncertainty.", "5": "In my opinion, the meaning of children is overrated. You can also have a fulfilling life without children." } }, "13": { "question_text": "Someone around you is consistently positive, always sees the good, stays in a good mood. How are you doing with that?", "answers": { "1": "I think it's great. This energy is contagious and does me good.", "2": "I like it, people like that lift the mood, I appreciate that.", "3": "Sometimes it's too much for me. Constant positivity quickly seems unrealistic to me.", "4": "It's getting on my nerves. Anyone who sugarcoats everything doesn't take problems seriously.", "5": "I don't notice anything like that." } }, "14": { "question_text": "When do you distance yourself from someone who lives differently than you?", "answers": { "1": "Not at all. Live and let live.", "2": "As soon as someone harms others or imposes their own values.", "3": "When the way of life fundamentally contradicts mine." } }, "15": { "question_text": "Should men and women have the same social and political rights?", "answers": { "1": "Yes, in every way. Politically and socially, they should be treated as equals.", "2": "Politically yes, socially you have to differentiate.", "3": "No. Different strengths should be reflected in roles and frameworks." } }, "16": { "question_text": "How do you think about the relationship between humans and animals?", "answers": { "1": "Animals have the same status as people. We are all living beings.", "2": "Animals are not the same as humans, but they should not be used.", "3": "Some animals should be protected, some can be used.", "4": "Animals are clearly below humans and can be used respectfully.", "5": "Animals are a resource and always have been in the past." } }, "17": { "question_text": "How do you personally deal with the issue of climate change?", "answers": { "1": "I consistently subordinate my everyday life to climate protection. No meat, no flying, no compromise.", "2": "I try to live consciously about nutrition, consumption, mobility. But I don't give up everything.", "3": "I pay attention to small things in everyday life, but I don't make any major restrictions.", "4": "I see the problem, but the individual cannot change anything. That is the task of politics and business.", "5": "Climate change has always existed. I don't think it's man-made." } }, "18": { "question_text": "Imagine two neighborhoods. One very culturally mixed, one strongly influenced by your own culture. Where do you feel more at home?", "answers": { "1": "In the very mixed. The more diverse, the more lively.", "2": "More mixed, variety is good for me.", "3": "Some diversity, yes, but my usual living environment should also be visible.", "4": "Rather where my own culture shapes everyday life.", "5": "Where my own culture clearly determines everyday life." } }, "19": { "question_text": "When a society is drifting apart, what do you think is the root of the problem?", "answers": { "1": "Too little freedom. When the state dictates too much, people lose their personal responsibility.", "2": "Too little solidarity. If everyone only thinks about themselves, society loses its cohesion.", "3": "Too much individualism. If everyone optimizes their own lives, we lose common goals and values.", "4": "Injustice. When opportunities are distributed unequally, mistrust and division arise.", "5": "Too little order. When rules don't apply or aren't enforced, everything falls apart.", "6": "The economic system. When profit comes before everything and a few people own more and more, society is divided from the ground up.", "7": "Too little openness. When diversity is seen as a threat instead of an asset, people isolate themselves and camps emerge.", "8": "I honestly don't think about it." } }, "20": { "question_text": "How do you deal with authority and hierarchy?", "answers": { "1": "I fundamentally question authority. I'd rather check myself than trust blindly.", "2": "I respect hierarchies if they make sense and lead to goals, but I don't follow them blindly.", "3": "I think clear hierarchies are important. I like to know who is in charge." } }, "21": { "question_text": "You're traveling with a group and nobody knows where. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I take over and give the direction. I don't like to let others decide.", "2": "I suggest something and get the group moving. This is easy for me and gives me joy.", "3": "I like to introduce an idea, but leave space. It's nice when it suits everyone.", "4": "I like to leave the direction to others and then actively help to implement it.", "5": "I just enjoy being involved and letting myself drift along in a relaxed manner." } }, "22": { "question_text": "How do you feel about folk traditions?", "answers": { "1": "I love traditions and live them actively. They connect me with people and moments that are important to me.", "2": "I value traditions and enjoy participating, but I'm more involved than a driving force.", "3": "I go along with traditions if others want me to, but I wouldn't think of the idea myself.", "4": "Traditions are outdated for me. The present is more important than what was before." } }, "23": { "question_text": "Where do you see yourself most likely politically?", "answers": { "1": "Left.", "2": "More left.", "3": "Center.", "4": "More right.", "5": "Right.", "6": "I'm not interested in politics. This is not my world." } }, "24": { "question_text": "What do you expect from people around you?", "answers": { "1": "Nothing. Everyone simply gives what they can and want to give.", "2": "Not much, but a minimum of values.", "3": "I expect from others what I am willing to give myself.", "4": "I expect more from others than from myself. I'm happy when someone makes up for what I lack." } }, "25": { "question_text": "Are you committed to people or causes outside of your immediate area?", "answers": { "1": "Yes, active. Volunteering or getting involved in charitable organizations. This is really important to me.", "2": "Occasionally. When an opportunity arises I jump at it, but I don't actively seek it out.", "3": "Barely. I focus on the people in my life. This is much more important.", "4": "No. I don't have the capacity for that." } }, "26": { "question_text": "When you think about your satisfaction in life, which is more true for you?", "answers": { "1": "I derive satisfaction from what I have. That's enough for me and gives me enough strength.", "2": "I am grateful for what is and at the same time motivated to do more with it.", "3": "What others achieve inspires and drives me.", "4": "I sometimes wonder why other people do better. That concerns me.", "5": "I'm still looking for satisfaction. I haven't really found it yet.", "6": "I am very happy with myself and what I have achieved." } }, "27": { "question_text": "On the train you sit in a space designated for strollers. Someone gets in with a stroller and you immediately get up without being asked. The person sits down without saying a word. What's going on inside you?", "answers": { "1": "Nothing. Why should something be happening to me? It goes without saying.", "2": "A thank you would have been nice, but I don't think about it for long.", "3": "It annoys me, even if it goes without saying, a thank you is the least I can do.", "4": "I openly say that I find the behavior rude." } }, "28": { "question_text": "In your circle of friends, whether at work or privately, more and more people are traveling to the same popular travel destination lately. How do you react to that?", "answers": { "1": "I book it too. It'll be really good if everyone wants to go there!", "2": "I'm putting it on my travel list.", "3": "I research and then decide for myself.", "4": "I travel as before, just wherever I want to go.", "5": "If everyone wants to go there, that's more of a reason for me not to do it.", "6": "I don't even notice something like that." } }, "29": { "question_text": "In one group someone makes a cheeky comment about “women behind the wheel”. Most laugh. How are you doing with that?", "answers": { "1": "I laugh along with you because, to be honest, I completely agree with that.", "2": "I think it's funny, sayings like that have their true essence.", "3": "Neutral — I just ignore it.", "4": "It all depends on the context and motivation behind it. When I notice that someone is joking, I laugh along with them.", "5": "It bothers me. Even as a joke, something like this conveys a distorted image.", "6": "I say something against it. I don't allow clichés like that to stand." } }, "30": { "question_text": "How do you think about working on your own mental health through therapy, coaching and mindfulness training?", "answers": { "1": "Very important. Working on it with professional help is a strength.", "2": "Positively open to it. If necessary, I would not hesitate to get help.", "3": "Open, but not my first approach. First I feel inside myself.", "4": "Has its justification in severe cases. But it's overused these days.", "5": "Rather skeptical. Most things are best handled by yourself.", "6": "Not my world. I don't think much of therapy and the like." } }, "31": { "question_text": "A person who is close to you proudly shows you something that a lot of heart and soul has gone into. An idea, a project, something homemade. The joy is clearly noticeable. To be honest, you don't like it. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I say clearly what I think. Precisely because the person is important to me, they deserve my honest assessment and not half-hearted ones.", "2": "I say it honestly, but carefully. How I say it determines whether it can be received.", "3": "I highlight the good and build on what was really successful. From there the rest comes more easily.", "4": "I'll leave it like that. Joy is precisely what is valuable. my view will have its place later, in peace.", "5": "I remain reserved, I decide whether my opinion really helps here based on my feeling for the moment.", "6": "I don't say anything. That's not my place." } }, "32": { "question_text": "A boyfriend or girlfriend did something that hurt others. You know about it. How do you feel about the person?", "answers": { "1": "I stick by the person, no matter what. For me, loyalty means unconditional loyalty.", "2": "I stand by the person, but I tell him what I think about it.", "3": "I separate person and action. But there are things that I cannot accept in silence, no matter who does them.", "4": "I don't protect anyone who harms others, including someone close to me. I distance myself.", "5": "I'm staying out of it. What happens between other people is not my concern." } }, "33": { "question_text": "You are with someone with two small children. Unobserved, they spread flour and eggs around half of the living room. One is all smeared, the other slipped and hit his head while crying. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I reprimand the little ones, they don't behave like that.", "2": "I don't want to interfere and give her space to sort it out with the two of them herself.", "3": "I observe at first and am a bit overwhelmed myself. I therefore behave rather passively.", "4": "I ask what I should do and how I can help, and then I do it.", "5": "I briefly say how I can help, get the okay and get started. Cleaning, comforting or cleaning up a child without having to ask me." } }, "34": { "question_text": "When do you have respect for someone?", "answers": { "1": "Everyone deserves respect just for being human.", "2": "I treat everyone with respect, but it can be squandered.", "3": "Everyone gets basic politeness, but you have to earn real respect.", "4": "You have to earn respect. Before that, I'll remain cautious." } }, "35": { "question_text": "You ordered something in the restaurant and the waitress brought something different but similar. How do you react?", "answers": { "1": "I say nothing and eat it. Mistakes happen, no reason for effort.", "2": "I politely point this out to the waitress, but eat what I was given.", "3": "I don't say anything, but internally I think about my part.", "4": "I address it directly, objectively and firmly. I just want what I ordered.", "5": "I say clearly what I think. You can certainly notice my displeasure too." } }, "36": { "question_text": "Someone you care about bursts into tears in front of you. You know you can't help right now. How do you react?", "answers": { "1": "I'm completely there and can bear it. Quietly, without having to walk away or solve immediately.", "2": "I really suffer. The pain becomes mine.", "3": "I'm there, but I'm immediately looking for a solution inside.", "4": "It's too much for me and I tend to withdraw.", "5": "To be honest, other people's emotions don't affect me much." } }, "37": { "question_text": "You see an injured bird in nature. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I'll take care of it immediately, no matter how much effort it takes.", "2": "I see what I can do, but I also accept if I can no longer help him.", "3": "I'm sorry and moved, but I trust that nature will find its own way.", "4": "I realize it, but things like that are part of life. Unfortunately there's nothing you can do about it.", "5": "To be honest, it doesn't bother me for long. I'm more of a person who focuses on the human aspect." } }, "38": { "question_text": "You go for a walk and you see a dead bird on the side of the road. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I'm moving on. This is part of nature.", "2": "I notice it, it touches me briefly and then I move on.", "3": "I stop and take a closer look at him. It's rare to be able to look at a bird so closely. I then put it back on the floor.", "4": "I put it aside. It shouldn't just lie on the path.", "5": "I find a suitable place, put it there and embed it in leaves so that it can return to nature in dignity." } }, "39": { "question_text": "A person close to you, whether a parent, sibling or someone you feel connected to, increasingly needs support in everyday life. Doctor's appointments, shopping, official visits. You have your own life with work and obligations. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I'm happy to do anything and more, even if she doesn't ask me to.", "2": "I put my life back as much as necessary. As long as she needs me, I'll be there.", "3": "I give what it takes, but I can't forget about myself, otherwise I can't be there for anyone.", "4": "I like to provide emotional support as much as I can.", "5": "I don't see myself as responsible. Everyone has to help themselves." } }, "40": { "question_text": "You organize a weekend trip with friends. How do you share travel information with others?", "answers": { "1": "I send a short text message to the group. Time, place, cost. We will organize the rest together.", "2": "I write a detailed message to the group with everything they need to know and think about further thoughts for planning on site.", "3": "I create a clear document with all the important information such as the program, costs, travel, which I share so that everyone is on the same page. And maybe a document or survey to ask for preferences.", "4": "I create a small manual with the program and information about the place, such as activities, restaurants, insider tips, and use apps to manage the trip.", "5": "Organizing is not my thing. Others can do that much better." } }, "41": { "question_text": "You want to improve your fitness. What do you need to really stick with it?", "answers": { "1": "Only myself. When I set my mind to something, I do it on my own initiative.", "2": "A fixed routine that I set for myself. Once established, it runs on its own.", "3": "A little outside support. An app, motivational videos, a plan, something to keep me going.", "4": "Obligation from others. A fixed group training session or a training partner, otherwise I'll let it slide.", "5": "To be honest, I find it difficult to stick with it. No matter how I approach it, sooner or later it falls asleep." } }, "42": { "question_text": "You've taken on something that takes more time and energy than expected and you realize that it's well beyond your comfort zone. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I'll go through with it. I won't give up what I've taken on, no matter what.", "2": "I'll go through with it, but I'm unhappy about it and will say what I can do earlier next time.", "3": "I'm looking for a conversation and asking if anyone can help me.", "4": "I'm leaving parts out. I deliver what I can, but not everything that was promised.", "5": "I'll give it to someone else. I can't deliver if I just can't." } }, "43": { "question_text": "You're planning a surprise weekend for someone close to you on their birthday. Orders and reservations will be canceled at short notice. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I sit for hours and look for solutions. I stick with the original plan or find a creative alternative that works for the person.", "2": "I try to reschedule without investing too much time and look for variants to at least convey the essence of the gift.", "3": "I'm getting support. You can find a solution more quickly together than alone.", "4": "I adjust expectations and simplify. It doesn't have to be perfect to be meaningful.", "5": "If too much falls away, I leave it.", "6": "I don't even bother with such elaborate planning, that's exactly why." } }, "44": { "question_text": "You are faced with an important decision that only affects you. Everyone close to you advises you against it. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I decide based on my own feeling. In the end I have to live with the consequences.", "2": "I listen and let it sink in.", "3": "I take counterarguments really seriously and let them challenge my thinking. If they convince me, I'll change course. But not because of social pressure alone.", "4": "I listen and let other people's opinions influence my decision.", "5": "If everyone advises against it, that's a strong signal for me. I'm basically rethinking it.", "6": "I follow the advice of people I trust. They often know me better than I know myself." } }, "45": { "question_text": "You want a big change, e.g. new job, new place, which also directly affects others. How do you go about it?", "answers": { "1": "I decide for myself and I think the others will find their way with it.", "2": "I basically decide for myself, but first I hear how others feel about it.", "3": "What it means for others weighs heavily with me and influences my decision.", "4": "We prefer to do something like this together - we find the way together.", "5": "I'll only take this step when the others can really support it." } }, "46": { "question_text": "What gives you inner stability?", "answers": { "1": "Myself. When I know who I am and what is important to me, I need little from the outside.", "2": "Familiar people. For me, support comes from close relationships.", "3": "Structure and routines. A regular everyday life supports me.", "4": "Faith, nature or a deeper belief. This is my foundation in difficult times.", "5": "I'm still looking for her. For me, stability is more of a goal than a state." } }, "47": { "question_text": "How do you feel about changing things and taking new paths?", "answers": { "1": "Variety is important to me. When everything stays the same for too long, I feel the desire for change.", "2": "I'm open to new things, but I don't need them. I change things if it feels right.", "3": "Stability gives me strength. I value the familiar and don't have to constantly experience something new.", "4": "I tend to live in the moment. What is supposed to come, comes." } }, "48": { "question_text": "Someone in the team makes suggestions to change processes in the company. This person is on the opposite political spectrum to you. How do you react internally to the suggestions?", "answers": { "1": "I tend to reject them. If someone thinks like that politically, I find it difficult to take the suggestions seriously.", "2": "I listen, but I'm more critical than I would otherwise be.", "3": "I assess the proposal objectively, detached from my attitude towards her.", "4": "I am basically open to every suggestion and every person, no matter where they come from." } }, "49": { "question_text": "There is a big pile of Lego bricks in front of you and you are supposed to build something out of it. How do you go about it?", "answers": { "1": "Only the finished plan. I know what it will be before I lay the first stone.", "2": "Rough idea, rest in building. A direction in your head, the details emerge.", "3": "Stone by stone. I build piece by piece and develop an idea from it.", "4": "It will be what it will be. I start without deciding where it will lead.", "5": "Not at all. I don't feel free to create something" } }, "50": { "question_text": "You would like to travel to a distant country, but no one in your circle of friends wants to go. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I like to plunge into adventures. I drive alone, it doesn't scare me.", "2": "I'm already feeling unwell, but I'll prepare well and drive.", "3": "I'm looking for ways to experience the trip with others, for example in a guided tour group. I feel more comfortable there.", "4": "I feel unsafe alone. Then I'll leave it alone." } }, "51": { "question_text": "You have achieved something that is really impressive. How do you deal with it?", "answers": { "1": "I actively share it. I think it's important to make successes visible. That is healthy self-confidence.", "2": "I don't actively share it. If it comes up, I'm happy to talk about it openly.", "3": "I'm happy inside, but outwardly I'm more reserved.", "4": "I instinctively make it smaller than it is. Self-praise makes me uncomfortable." } }, "52": { "question_text": "You need a new sofa. What would you choose as your first option?", "answers": { "1": "I barely have a budget. I'll take what I can get.", "2": "I look at second-hand platforms first. If it's in good condition, it doesn't have to be new.", "3": "I'm buying something solid in the mid-range. New, but without much thought.", "4": "I consciously invest in quality. It's better to spend more and enjoy it for a long time.", "5": "I buy what I like. A beautiful home is important to me.", "6": "I consciously buy something that can be seen. For me, style and aesthetics are an expression of who I am.", "7": "I do it myself. Build, refurbish, upcycle. I prefer making it myself than buying it." } }, "53": { "question_text": "How important is it to you to be part of something? A circle of friends, a community, a group?", "answers": { "1": "I love the feeling. Together we are more than the sum of our parts. This gives me strength and identity.", "2": "Important, but selective. A place or a group where I really belong is enough for me. I don't need this everywhere.", "3": "Pleasant but not necessary. I'm happy to be there when it arises, but I don't miss it when it's missing.", "4": "I don't feel the need to belong anywhere. I prefer to maintain close individual relationships rather than group structures.", "5": "I prefer to live independently of established communities and affiliations." } }, "54": { "question_text": "What role does nature play in your life?", "answers": { "1": "I see myself as part of nature. If I'm without her for too long, I lose something of myself.", "2": "I look for her actively and daily. Nature is my place of strength and an integral part of my everyday life.", "3": "I consciously enjoy nature, but I don't need it every day.", "4": "I appreciate it occasionally, but it is not an active need of mine.", "5": "I prefer to live in the city. Nature is beautiful, but it doesn't particularly attract me." } }, "55": { "question_text": "Someone around you who is clearly doing well often complains about stress and small annoyances. What do you think?", "answers": { "1": "I think that's completely normal. I also complain about things like this.", "2": "Everyone has the right to complain. What seems small from the outside can feel big from the inside.", "3": "I get it, but I wish the person would be more aware of what they have.", "4": "It honestly bothers me. In my opinion, anyone who complains even though everything is actually there is losing sight of what is important." } }, "56": { "question_text": "You're sitting with friends in the evening and someone asks a question, which you answer because you should know the answer. But you quickly realize that your answer is wrong and everyone notices. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "I correct myself immediately, laugh about it for a moment and move on.", "2": "It makes me uncomfortable, but I own it and then let it go.", "3": "I move on externally, but internally I still think about it for a long time.", "4": "I wish I could leave the situation. I would like to undo moments like these.", "5": "I'm very annoyed about this. About the question and the situation." } }, "57": { "question_text": "Someone you care about always disappoints you. Not dramatic, but it's repetitive. Can you forgive and if so, under what conditions?", "answers": { "1": "I forgive unconditionally. None of us are perfect, and letting go is more important to me than being right.", "2": "I forgive, but I need an honest apology and insight from the other person.", "3": "It's difficult for me, but I'm looking for a conversation and want to solve it together, even if I know that traces will remain.", "4": "If someone continually disappoints me, my trust will eventually be permanently destroyed.", "5": "I generally don't forgive." } }, "58": { "question_text": "What would be the actual breach of trust in a relationship for you?", "answers": { "1": "The physical. Only when you get physically close.", "2": "The secrecy. No matter whether physical, digital or emotional", "3": "The emotional involvement. When the heart is somewhere else.", "4": "Even the thought of turning internally to another person.", "5": "What we agreed upon individually.", "6": "For me that doesn't exist." } }, "59": { "question_text": "You worked all day and didn't eat anything. Your ordered pizza has just arrived. A close friend calls you and says that he has locked himself out. You have the spare key and it's a 45 minute drive. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I'm leaving immediately. The pizza can wait.", "2": "I eat on the go. Grab me a piece for the way and set off immediately.", "3": "I eat the pizza and then drive to the person.", "4": "I ask the person to find a solution, e.g. Locksmith or hotel and would be happy to provide support from a distance.", "5": "Now it's my evening and I'm enjoying it. I'll bring the key over tomorrow." } }, "60": { "question_text": "You are walking alone through the forest and you see several discarded cigarette butts on the side of the path. What is your reaction?", "answers": { "1": "I save them and take them with me until I can dispose of them.", "2": "Not every time, but often I pick something up. I can't walk past it without feeling guilty.", "3": "I don't understand how you just throw something like that into nature. Occasionally I put something away, but that's not really my job.", "4": "I notice it, but it doesn't bother me.", "5": "No further. I hardly notice something like that. When I walk I am completely with myself." } }, "61": { "question_text": "You invite friends over on Friday evening. How do you design this culinary?", "answers": { "1": "I cook several courses or prepare plenty.", "2": "I provide snacks, food and drinks or order something good.", "3": "We go shopping together and share the costs.", "4": "Everyone brings something and I take care of the snacks.", "5": "I don't think much about it." } }, "62": { "question_text": "At short notice, an additional task arises in the team that someone has to take on. How do you usually react?", "answers": { "1": "Yes, of course, I'll take it over.", "2": "I have to see if I can push something back first.", "3": "I'll wait and see.", "4": "I think about who would be better suited to this than me.", "5": "I pass and explain why things are difficult for me right now." } }, "63": { "question_text": "How much do you see the meaning of going through life with someone?", "answers": { "1": "Very. Shaping life together, the ups and the difficulties, gives me a meaning that you don't have alone.", "2": "I want a relationship, but I don't need it. It should enrich my life, not complete it.", "3": "I'm conflicted. Closeness attracts me, but relationships also cost me a lot. I'm not sure what I really want yet.", "4": "I prefer to live alone. I value my freedom and independence more than what a relationship can offer.", "5": "I have had too many painful experiences. At the moment, the thought of a committed relationship is more stressful than tempting.", "6": "I don't have any relationship experience yet and it's difficult to assess that." } }, "64": { "question_text": "Why do you want to get to know someone?", "answers": { "1": "It just feels natural.", "2": "Being alone doesn't feel right.", "3": "Because together you are more than alone.", "4": "Because of the attraction and the beauty of it. Closeness, excitement, infatuation.", "5": "I haven't really asked myself that yet." } }, "65": { "question_text": "You realize that someone you really like is really attached to you. This person often thinks about you, seeks your closeness, shows you that you are important to them. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "It feels nice and natural and I'm happy to give it back.", "2": "At some point, closeness of this intensity needs some breathing room. I appreciate it, but not without breaks.", "3": "It triggers something contradictory in me. I want it and avoid it at the same time. I don't always know why myself.", "4": "I'm not sure how to deal with this yet. Such situations are still relatively new for me.", "5": "To be honest, my interest tends to wane when someone is so attached to me. For me, the appeal comes from the distance." } }, "66": { "question_text": "How much time together and how much time of your own do you think is right in a relationship?", "answers": { "1": "Do everything together! That's why we're together.", "2": "As much as you can. After all, it is your favorite person with whom you enjoy spending time.", "3": "A lot of time together, but both of them also regularly have their own space.", "4": "This can change depending on the phase. Sometimes a lot of closeness, sometimes a lot of distance.", "5": "Sufficient free space is clearly part of it. Being together, but also going your own way.", "6": "Preferably light and free. You get the most out of it when there are no expectations." } }, "67": { "question_text": "How important is it to you that your partner is available at all times in everyday life?", "answers": { "1": "Very important! I want to be able to reach him, that creates security and stability.", "2": "Important, but without continuous monitoring. I value reliability and trust my partner.", "3": "Pragmatic. The main thing is that you can be available for emergencies or important matters, otherwise there are hardly any expectations.", "4": "Accessibility doesn't matter to me. I live and let live." } }, "68": { "question_text": "How much written or telephone contact do you want during the getting-to-know-you phase?", "answers": { "1": "I write or call if something comes up. No fixed pattern, no print.", "2": "Once a day or every other day is enough for me. A short or intensive exchange in the evening or when it suits.", "3": "A few times a day. I am happy when we are in regular contact.", "4": "Preferably as much as you can. At the beginning it's natural for me to have a lot of contact, but later it settles into a relaxed everyday rhythm anyway." } }, "69": { "question_text": "You are planning an evening with friends or a short trip with someone from your circle of friends. How naturally do you include your partner?", "answers": { "1": "I organize my everyday life independently and let you know afterwards.", "2": "I'll let you know briefly beforehand. Not to ask, but out of fairness and respect.", "3": "I agree. It's important to me that it works for both of us.", "4": "I always discuss important things beforehand. Anything else would be disrespectful to us.", "5": "I prefer to get the okay before I plan anything. I feel more comfortable with it." } }, "70": { "question_text": "Your partner sees you in a really weak moment. You are sad, overwhelmed or crying. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "I show my injury and hope that my partner will realize that I need closeness and come to me.", "2": "I share my vulnerability openly and actively ask for support.", "3": "I first need physical distance to compose myself. A walk, time alone. After that I'll be back again.", "4": "I don't let it show and I go inwardly. I process alone." } }, "71": { "question_text": "Your partner meets someone you don't know privately without mentioning it first. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "This situation would never arise for me. I expect my partner to proactively address something like this and I do the same.", "2": "I trust completely. Situations like this don't make me uneasy.", "3": "I notice discomfort and address it. After that, trust comes easy to me.", "4": "I find it difficult to trust in this situation. My thoughts are still spinning even when I actually know that everything is fine.", "5": "I feel anger & jealousy. Situations like this can really throw me off track.", "6": "That doesn't bother me. I live openly myself and give my partner the same freedom.", "7": "I don't have any experience with this yet and it's difficult to assess." } }, "72": { "question_text": "If you're in a relationship, how does it dictate your life?", "answers": { "1": "I fully support it and align my life accordingly. It's a real one for each other.", "2": "I'm committed and I show it, but I also keep my own life. A solid togetherness.", "3": "I am completely enjoying the relationship at the moment. I let them grow organically without restricting myself with too much planning.", "4": "I prefer to live without fixed structures. Commitment quickly feels like a cage to me.", "5": "I live openly. For me, commitment means honesty and respect, not exclusivity." } }, "73": { "question_text": "What is your idea of ​​a relationship in the future?", "answers": { "1": "A life together that we actively shape, with everything that goes with it. Deep roots with one another.", "2": "A stable partnership that gives us space. Strong together, but everyone remains themselves.", "3": "I take it one day at a time. You never know what the future holds and you can't plan for it.", "4": "I don't imagine a classic two-person constellation. I want to build a network of deep, honest connections." } }, "74": { "question_text": "You're in the middle of a heated disagreement with someone you care about. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "I remain objective. I separate the person from the problem and look for a solution.", "2": "I get emotional but try to stay constructive.", "3": "I'm going on the offensive. If I am attacked, I can defend myself loudly.", "4": "I'm overwhelmed. Anger or tears that I can barely stop.", "5": "I shut down internally and wait for it to pass.", "6": "I need physical distance for a moment, but then I come back and finish it.", "7": "I go. That doesn't help anyway, and it usually calms itself down." } }, "75": { "question_text": "A disagreement is over but the air is not yet completely clear. What happens next?", "answers": { "1": "I approach the other person, apologize and seek reconciliation.", "2": "I need some time, but then I take a step towards the person.", "3": "I wait until the other person comes to me. It always takes two.", "4": "It takes me a lot longer to be open again. I'm processing more intensely and can't just keep going.", "5": "I let it settle itself. Most of the time the tension is released without anyone actively doing anything." } }, "76": { "question_text": "Someone badmouths your partner in a group. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I'll come in immediately. This doesn't require a moment's thought.", "2": "I hesitate a little, but then defend him.", "3": "I first see how my partner reacts and I'm there when I'm needed.", "4": "I hold back at the moment and just let her talk.", "5": "I'm staying out of it. My partner can do that himself." } }, "77": { "question_text": "What do you tend to expect from a partner in difficult times?", "answers": { "1": "That my partner is attentive and contributes himself, with heart and mind.", "2": "That he listens and understands. I have to act myself.", "3": "That he thinks for himself and actively helps. Concrete support gives me more than words.", "4": "That my partner is there when I need support, but doesn't impose anything on his own.", "5": "That he gives me space. In difficult phases I need to retreat, not to contribute." } }, "78": { "question_text": "How much do you do before giving up on a relationship?", "answers": { "1": "I fight and don't give up!", "2": "I give everything when I notice that the other person is struggling the same way.", "3": "I'm happy to get involved as long as it feels right, but I don't cling.", "4": "I accept when something is no longer meant to be and then let go. It's not worth fighting." } }, "79": { "question_text": "You notice that for a long time you have been giving another person significantly more than you get back: more initiative, more care, more energy. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "I'll address it directly. That has to change, otherwise it will wear on me.", "2": "At first I ask myself if I'm expecting too much. Maybe it's just me.", "3": "I withdraw quietly and give less. At some point you'll notice it.", "4": "I can endure it for a long time, but at some point it breaks and I'm really exhausted.", "5": "I'm wired to like to give. I don't need symmetry to feel good.", "6": "It makes me fundamentally question the relationship." } }, "80": { "question_text": "If you are honest, what is most important to you in a relationship?", "answers": { "1": "A real home. Someone with whom I share everything and who accompanies me through all phases of life.", "2": "Growth. Someone who challenges me and with whom I become more than I would be alone.", "3": "Freedom in connection. Strong together, but everyone remains themselves.", "4": "Reliability. Someone I can count on, no matter what.", "5": "Physical closeness and attraction. For me, this is a central part of love.", "6": "Ease. Someone with whom life is simply more beautiful.", "7": "Honestly, I just don't want to be alone." } }, "81": { "question_text": "Your new partner asks you about your last relationship. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I like to talk about it, it's part of me and I have nothing to hide. I don't trash the other person.", "2": "I talk about it openly, but it takes some trust before I'm really ready.", "3": "I talk about everything that was and don't mince words.", "4": "I say what is necessary, but not everything. That's my business.", "5": "I deliberately avoid the topic. The past does not belong in new relationships.", "6": "I haven't had a relationship to talk about yet." } }, "82": { "question_text": "Your partner has regular contact with an ex. How do you deal with this?", "answers": { "1": "No problem. I trust my partner and that's enough for me.", "2": "I think it's beautiful. Whoever influenced my partner is one of them. But I expect complete transparency.", "3": "I accept it, but I need to feel that this connection is clearly in the past.", "4": "It's difficult for me. Contact with ex-partners stresses me out.", "5": "That would be a real no-go for me. I don't want close contact with ex-partners in a relationship.", "6": "I have no problem with that since we didn't agree on any exclusivity anyway." } }, "83": { "question_text": "You've noticed that your partner has been more distant than usual lately. What's your first thought?", "answers": { "1": "I hardly notice it. Everyone has their phases.", "2": "My partner will have reasons and will tell me when the time is right.", "3": "I wonder if I did something wrong.", "4": "I'm worried and I speak up about it." } }, "84": { "question_text": "How do you imagine an ideal division of tasks in a partnership?", "answers": { "1": "Traditional. I value clear roles based on gender.", "2": "Equivalent. We share tasks and responsibilities equally.", "3": "According to strengths. Anyone who can do something better or likes to do it will do it, regardless of gender or expectations.", "4": "Situational. This depends on your life stage, income and capacity. I don't have a fixed idea." } }, "85": { "question_text": "How do you fundamentally imagine education?", "answers": { "1": "I don't have any children and don't plan on having any.", "2": "Situational. I adapt to the child and the moment.", "3": "Freedom. The child finds his own way. I accompany without steering.", "4": "Together. Boundaries arise in conversation. The child has a real voice.", "5": "Explanatory and sensitive. I explain why something applies and take the child seriously. But I have the last word.", "6": "Clear rules and consequences without much discussion give children the best orientation." } }, "86": { "question_text": "What takes priority when career and relationship come into conflict?", "answers": { "1": "Career. It secures the foundation on which everything else is built.", "2": "More like a career. A life together needs a solid foundation, but I'm looking for balance.", "3": "Both are equivalent. I don't want to put my relationship or career on hold.", "4": "More like a partnership. Professional success is important to me, but not at the expense of the people I care about.", "5": "Partnership. No job is worth neglecting your relationship for." } }, "87": { "question_text": "How do you feel about entering into a relationship with someone who already has children?", "answers": { "1": "No problem. Children are part of the person, I am open to it.", "2": "I'm open, but it takes the right constellation and time.", "3": "I'm basically ready, but it would be a conscious decision with consideration.", "4": "Rather not. I know it can get very complex.", "5": "This is an exclusion criterion for me." } }, "88": { "question_text": "Your partner wants to go on a week-long fun vacation alone with friends. Beach, party, celebrate. How do you react?", "answers": { "1": "I'm happy for my partner. I like doing something like that too.", "2": "I appreciate it, but I want to stay in touch and know what's going on.", "3": "I'm not really comfortable with it. I would rather we travel together.", "4": "That wouldn't be an option for me. I would say I don't want that.", "5": "Something like that isn't for me and I don't want a partner for whom parties and celebrations are important." } }, "89": { "question_text": "You and your partner have a free weekend and neither of you have any obligations. What is your natural first impulse?", "answers": { "1": "I assume that we will spend the time together and would therefore like to suggest something. We will decide together what we will do next.", "2": "I think about something I would like to do and ask if my partner would like to come along. If not, I'm happy to do it alone.", "3": "I first think about what I want and consciously decide whether it is something I would like to experience with my partner or alone.", "4": "I don't actively plan anything with my partner. This arises spontaneously.", "5": "I plan for myself at first. What my partner does is his own business. I think it's right that we live our free time independently." } }, "90": { "question_text": "When you meet someone you're interested in, how do you get involved?", "answers": { "1": "Open and approachable. I'm happy to get involved and show my interest.", "2": "Carefree. I enjoy it without immediately worrying about where to go.", "3": "Targeted. I quickly notice whether it fits and act accordingly.", "4": "By feeling. I trust that I can sense whether it is the right thing to do.", "5": "Cautious. I need time and trust before I really open up." } }, "91": { "question_text": "Your own family doesn't take kindly to your partner. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I'll let her talk. It doesn't change anything anyway, and most of the time it goes away on its own.", "2": "I agree with my family. If she reacts like that, there is usually a reason.", "3": "I tend to stick by my family. She has known me the longest and there is often something to her impression.", "4": "I'm trying to convey. I don't want to leave my partner alone or offend my family.", "5": "I clearly stand up to my partner, even if it causes waves in my family." } }, "92": { "question_text": "What is your natural daily rhythm?", "answers": { "1": "I am definitely a morning person. I am most productive and fittest early.", "2": "I'm slowly getting going, but my performance is consistent throughout the day.", "3": "I'm an evening person. I run in the afternoon and am at my best in the evening.", "4": "I'm a real night owl. I don't become really productive until late.", "5": "I don't have a fixed rhythm. That varies greatly." } }, "93": { "question_text": "How structured is your everyday life typically?", "answers": { "1": "I actively plan ahead. I usually know what happens and when. This gives me structure and direction.", "2": "I have set routines. I don't need to plan much because a lot of things just work out.", "3": "I have a rough framework, but leave myself plenty of room for change.", "4": "I live in the river. I make short-term decisions and feel most comfortable doing so.", "5": "I don't have a regular everyday life and that's okay for me." } }, "94": { "question_text": "You've been planning a meeting for a month with someone you've known for a while. The cancellation follows the evening before. The person does not feel well. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "I think it's a shame, but I understand and wish you a speedy recovery.", "2": "That can happen. It's fine with me and I'll find something else to do.", "3": "I'm disappointed and I tell her so. Not to argue, but because the meeting was important to me.", "4": "I see the reason as convenience and am annoyed by the unreliability.", "5": "I draw conclusions. Anyone who is unreliable has no place in my circle of friends." } }, "95": { "question_text": "Someone suggests you do something else tonight. How do you typically react?", "answers": { "1": "I'm very happy and I'm there. Spontaneous evenings are often the most beautiful.", "2": "I'm happy, but I'll take a moment to see if it fits into my evening.", "3": "I react neutrally and consider whether it's worth it.", "4": "That stresses me out. I would like to, but my everyday life is so busy that I hardly have any buffer.", "5": "I cancel. That's too short notice for me." } }, "96": { "question_text": "What does your perfect weekend look like?", "answers": { "1": "Fully packed. Activities, things to do, experience as much as possible.", "2": "Sleep in, eat well, meet people. Moderate but lively.", "3": "Little program, lots of space. For me, rest is real relaxation." } }, "97": { "question_text": "How important is getting enough sleep to you?", "answers": { "1": "Sleep is my favorite rest. I like to sleep a lot and for a long time.", "2": "Very important. I actively guard my sleep. If he falls short, you can tell.", "3": "Important. I try to sleep regularly enough, but am flexible if it doesn't work.", "4": "I would like to sleep more, but everyday life often doesn't allow it. I'll still manage.", "5": "I get along well with little sleep and am happy to sacrifice it for other things." } }, "98": { "question_text": "How do you sleep and what do you need to sleep really well?", "answers": { "1": "I need optimal conditions. Peace, darkness, the right temperature.", "2": "I react to noises in my sleep. Snoring or restlessness wake me up and I have a hard time getting back to sleep.", "3": "I sleep normally, but at a certain noise level I notice it.", "4": "I can sleep anywhere and anytime. On the plane, on the sofa, no matter where.", "5": "I generally sleep poorly. That's just my topic." } }, "99": { "question_text": "What role does physical activity play in your everyday life?", "answers": { "1": "A very big one. I do it because I love it, not because I have to.", "2": "I train a lot. It increases my physical and visual well-being and that is important to me.", "3": "I exercise regularly, simply to stay healthy and maintain my well-being.", "4": "I move little. It doesn't suit me and I don't enjoy it either.", "5": "I move within what my body allows. Restrictions shape how and how much." } }, "100": { "question_text": "What do you like to do most when you don't have any obligations?", "answers": { "1": "I'm moving. Go outside, exercise, something active.", "2": "I am in nature. Walk, sit, just enjoy the peace and quiet.", "3": "I meet people or write to them. This is real relaxation for me.", "4": "I'm diving into something. A book, a series, podcasts, articles. Simply let it sprinkle.", "5": "I play or do crafts. Games, board games, anything that is interactive and entertaining.", "6": "I recover passively. I watch sports, scroll through social media or videos.", "7": "I am active in my head. A project, learning, something I design or build.", "8": "I'm going out. Celebrate, dance, enjoy the nightlife with people.", "9": "I am creative. Music, writing, cooking, something that comes from me." } }, "101": { "question_text": "How important is it to you that your partner has a similar lifestyle and interests?", "answers": { "1": "For me it is a basic requirement. The core must match. Nuances can be found, but the way of life should be the same.", "2": "It's important to me, but not a hard condition. I need overlap in some areas, not everything.", "3": "I'm happy about shared interests, but I also appreciate when someone brings their own world with them.", "4": "For me, it's nicer if we discover new interests together through the relationship than if we already have the same ones.", "5": "Common interests don't play a big role for me. For me, connection occurs on a different level." } }, "102": { "question_text": "Is there something you regularly spend time and energy on?", "answers": { "1": "Yes, and it is a central part of my life. I identify with that.", "2": "Yes, I have one or two things that I'm really passionate about.", "3": "I have interests, but they don't have a significant influence on my everyday life.", "4": "No, I don't know that. I don't like intense enthusiasm." } }, "103": { "question_text": "What is your ideal vacation?", "answers": { "1": "City trip. Good food, discovering interesting corners, soaking up urban life.", "2": "Outdoor & Nature. Hiking, camping, trekking. Be active in nature.", "3": "Beach & relaxation. Sun, sea, wellness. Consciously come down and recharge.", "4": "Culture & Depth. Museums, history, local people. I travel to understand.", "5": "Party & Nightlife. Experience the nightlife of a place, celebrate, get to know people.", "6": "Backpacking. Spontaneous, uncomplicated, close to the reality of the country.", "7": "Moderate & social. A mix of excursions, good food and relaxed evenings.", "8": "I don't like traveling. Home is my favorite place to relax.", "9": "Sports & Action. Cycling trips, water sports or other active activities" } }, "104": { "question_text": "What do you need to feel physically good?", "answers": { "1": "Pleasant conditions are important to me. When it rains, is cold or becomes physically uncomfortable, I notice it quickly.", "2": "Rain, cold or physical exertion don't bother me. But after a while I need warmth, rest and some comfort.", "3": "I accept bad conditions, physical strain or harsh weather without giving it much thought.", "4": "Cold, heat, exertion. That doesn't scare me. I can function for days in difficult conditions.", "5": "Physical limitations or illnesses set limits for me, not my will." } }, "105": { "question_text": "What role does cooking play in your everyday life?", "answers": { "1": "Cooking is my passion. I experiment, cook fresh and enjoy the process. Almost every day.", "2": "I cook consciously and deliberately. Nutrients and composition are important to me.", "3": "I cook regularly, often using standard recipes. Solid, reliable, without much effort.", "4": "I cook if I have to, but I often use ready-made food or order it.", "5": "I don't cook. Eating out or ordering is my everyday life." } }, "106": { "question_text": "How tidy is your home in everyday life, honestly?", "answers": { "1": "Very neat. Everything has its place and I expect the same from everyone who lives in the same household. Clutter makes me nervous.", "2": "Orderly. It's my own style, but I can handle other people's styles.", "3": "Functional. I know where everything is, even if it doesn't always look tidy.", "4": "Rather messy. Order is not a high priority for me.", "5": "I often only notice disorder when it gets really extreme." } }, "107": { "question_text": "Imagine you live together and your partner wants a classic pet like cats or dogs. How do you react?", "answers": { "1": "For me, pets are full members of the family. They belong everywhere", "2": "Pets are very important to me and I take full responsibility, with clear boundaries and rules, for example in the kitchen or bedroom.", "3": "I like pets, but they shouldn't dominate my everyday life.", "4": "I don't like classically domesticated animals, snakes, spiders, turtles, fish and the like.", "5": "I accept a pet if it is important to the partner, but it is not mine.", "6": "I don't want any pets in my household." } }, "108": { "question_text": "What importance does work have in your life?", "answers": { "1": "For me, work and calling are one. I do what I love and that shapes my entire everyday life.", "2": "A very high one. Work is a central part of my identity and I invest a lot.", "3": "An important but balanced one. I like to work well and then switch off afterwards.", "4": "A pragmatic one. Work finances what is really important to me.", "5": "A small one. I work because I have to, but my life takes place somewhere else.", "6": "Work deliberately does not play a central role in my life. I organize my life differently.", "7": "I would like to work, but health reasons don't allow it at the moment." } }, "109": { "question_text": "How clearly do you separate work and private life?", "answers": { "1": "Very clear. When I'm off work, it's end time. Work has no place in my free time.", "2": "Most of the time it's clear, but I'm flexible when it's really necessary.", "3": "The border is fluid. I work when it's convenient and relax when I can.", "4": "I hardly separate. For me, work and life are one and I don't find it stressful.", "5": "I would like to separate things more clearly, but I don't always succeed.", "6": "I'm not currently working." } }, "110": { "question_text": "What role does your smartphone play in your everyday life?", "answers": { "1": "As a tool. Communication, organization, information and further training. I don't need anything more.", "2": "As a tool and for entertainment. Both have their place.", "3": "Mainly for entertainment and social media. That takes up most of it.", "4": "Only if I have to. I rarely pick up my cell phone.", "5": "Almost not at all. The smartphone hardly plays a role in my life." } }, "111": { "question_text": "What do you like to consume most in your free time?", "answers": { "1": "Series, films and cinema.", "2": "Theater, opera, exhibitions and culture.", "3": "Read. Books, articles, blogs, digital media.", "4": "Podcasts, audio books or radio.", "5": "Music. In everyday life, at concerts or live events.", "6": "Clubs and festivals.", "7": "Traditions and folk festivals. Regional occasions, customs, community celebrations.", "8": "None particularly. Culture doesn't play a big role in my life." } }, "112": { "question_text": "On a normal day, how long does it take you to get ready in the morning?", "answers": { "1": "Over an hour. Showering, hair, care, styling, putting together the outfit. I take all the time.", "2": "Up to an hour. For me, thorough care and thoughtful styling are part of it.", "3": "About half an hour. Shower, get ready, get dressed. Well maintained, without much effort.", "4": "About a quarter of an hour. What you need comes quickly.", "5": "Five minutes or less. Get up, get dressed, go.", "6": "I need more time in the morning. But for practical or health reasons, not for styling." } }, "113": { "question_text": "How private is your relationship for you?", "answers": { "1": "I share openly. With friends, family and also on social media, including photos and shared moments.", "2": "I talk openly about it or share pictures with close friends and family, but not on public social media channels.", "3": "I share very selectively and don't send photos. A small circle knows, nothing more is needed.", "4": "With no one. My relationship only concerns both of us.", "5": "I like to decide this together with my partner. I don't have a firm stance on this." } }, "114": { "question_text": "What role does social media play in your everyday life?", "answers": { "1": "I am actively present. I post, share and maintain my channels regularly.", "2": "I consume a lot but hardly post myself.", "3": "I use them functionally for groups, events, marketplaces or specific knowledge.", "4": "I check in occasionally or when there is a specific reason.", "5": "I consciously reduced it or stopped it completely. I prefer to live offline." } }, "115": { "question_text": "Do you like to party hard, go to discos and clubs?", "answers": { "1": "Total. I love these nights when you forget everything and completely let yourself go.", "2": "Yes gladly. Every now and then a nice evening with dancing and a good atmosphere.", "3": "Depends on the opportunity and the people.", "4": "Rather rare. I prefer quieter evenings.", "5": "No, that's not mine." } }, "116": { "question_text": "You have to make an important decision today that cannot be undone, e.g. a job change, a move, a big investment. Not all the information is there yet. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I'll wait as long as possible. I find it difficult to make decisions without complete clarity.", "2": "I structure what I know and what is missing and then decide.", "3": "I listen to my gut feeling and decide.", "4": "At some point I'll just decide. The main thing is that the pressure is gone.", "5": "I get another perspective before I decide.", "6": "I'll leave the decision to someone I trust." } }, "117": { "question_text": "You are waiting for an important test result from the doctor. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "I take it as it comes. Worrying is of no use, I'll carry on living until I know more.", "2": "I consciously distract myself. Thinking doesn't help, so I don't do it.", "3": "I'm talking about it. It helps me bear the uncertainty when I share it.", "4": "I imagine scenarios and try to prepare for both possibilities.", "5": "I ponder and can't get away from it until I have the answer." } }, "118": { "question_text": "You make a mistake, only you bear the consequences. What does this mistake do to you?", "answers": { "1": "Mistakes happen. I don't give it any further thought.", "2": "I take a quick look at what went wrong and draw my conclusions. Nothing sticks emotionally.", "3": "I criticize myself. The feeling of “I should have known” is hard to shake.", "4": "The mistake confirms an insecurity that is already there, that I am not strong enough in certain things.", "5": "Moments like this really hit me. A mistake quickly triggers the feeling of fundamentally not being enough." } }, "119": { "question_text": "You unexpectedly lose your job. How do you deal with it in the weeks afterwards?", "answers": { "1": "I quickly look ahead. What's over is over.", "2": "I'll take it as it comes. I don't care much about it. Something arises again.", "3": "It bothers me for a while, but I'll figure it out on my own.", "4": "It hits me deeply. I really need time to get back into balance.", "5": "It won't let me go for a long time. I keep going over it in my head and wondering why it had to happen this way." } }, "120": { "question_text": "You have given something that is good but not perfect. How are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "Good. Good enough is good enough.", "2": "I notice the flaws, but I can live with them.", "3": "It won't let me go completely. I know what I could have done better.", "4": "I'm less worried about myself, but I wonder what others think.", "5": "It torments me. Above all, I see what's wrong.", "6": "I wouldn't have given it in at all if it wasn't perfect." } }, "121": { "question_text": "You have the chance of something big but also the risk of losing a lot. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "I'll do it. If you don't risk anything, you won't gain anything.", "2": "I analyze carefully. If there's more to it, I'll take the risk.", "3": "I hesitate. The risk of losing something outweighs the chance.", "4": "I only do it if the risk is minimal.", "5": "I'll leave it. Safety is more important to me." } }, "122": { "question_text": "Several things go wrong at the same time. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I prioritize and work through things point by point.", "2": "I become calmer than usual. Pressure activates me.", "3": "I notice how the stress level is rising, but I keep an overview.", "4": "I get hectic and lose track.", "5": "I withdraw and need some distance first.", "6": "I'm breaking down inside. Too much at once completely overwhelms me." } }, "123": { "question_text": "Your partner repeatedly does something that bothers you, even though you've already talked about it. What happens first?", "answers": { "1": "It stays calm inside me, I can address it directly.", "2": "Anger rises, but I control it and remain objective.", "3": "I feel it clearly, but I don't show anything. It stays within me.", "4": "It closes inside me. I need some distance before I can talk.", "5": "It boils up immediately. The anger comes faster than me.", "6": "In me it turns into a clear “not like that anymore”! That will have consequences." } }, "124": { "question_text": "Your partner tells you that something about you bothers him. What happens to you in the first moment, even before you react?", "answers": { "1": "I'm immediately curious and I want to understand what he means.", "2": "At first it twitches for a moment, but I listen and take it seriously.", "3": "First I justify myself internally. My first reflex is to explain why I am like this.", "4": "It stings! I feel attacked, even if he doesn't mean it.", "5": "I close down internally or counterattack. The main thing is not to be in the wrong." } }, "125": { "question_text": "You've been unhappy in your job for months. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I'm acting! I update my profile, actively look around or talk to my manager.", "2": "I know I should do something, but I can't really get moving. I think a lot and do little.", "3": "I talk to people I trust and hope that the exchange will help me find a way.", "4": "I distract myself. After work, I consciously switch off and focus on things that are good for me.", "5": "I'm holding on and hope that the situation changes on its own." } }, "126": { "question_text": "How much of your inner life do you want to share with your partner?", "answers": { "1": "Almost everything. Thoughts, fears, insecurities. My partner should be my closest trusted person.", "2": "Many things, but some remain my own inner space.", "3": "The important thing. I value lightness rather than constant emotional depth.", "4": "Rather little. I process most of it on my own.", "5": "I prefer to remain internally independent." } }, "127": { "question_text": "Someone is extremely upset with you. How long will it take until you're calm again?", "answers": { "1": "Nothing really upsets me that quickly. I mostly stay calm.", "2": "I calm down quickly. After a short while it's done for me.", "3": "It takes me a few hours to get back to normal.", "4": "It takes me all day or more to get back into balance.", "5": "I calm down externally, but internally I carry it with me for a long time." } }, "128": { "question_text": "How would you describe your basic emotional nature?", "answers": { "1": "Calm and equanimous. It takes a lot for me to really get thrown off track.", "2": "Balanced. I react to things, but rarely in an exuberant or violent way.", "3": "Lively and expressive. My feelings show up in both directions.", "4": "Impulsive and intense. I react quickly and very strongly, that's me." } }, "129": { "question_text": "How would you describe your everyday pace, not in stressful situations, but in general?", "answers": { "1": "Calm and thoughtful. I take my time and do things without rushing.", "2": "Balanced. Neither hastily nor slowly, I manage my pace well.", "3": "Quickly. I prefer to be one step ahead and do things quickly.", "4": "Hectic. My head and body can hardly be calmed down in their basic state." } }, "130": { "question_text": "You have to take on something for the first time that you have never done before. What's going on inside you?", "answers": { "1": "I look forward to it. New and unfamiliar things excite me.", "2": "I'm taking it easy and I trust that I'll find my way.", "3": "A little uneasy at first, but once I'm in, my confidence grows.", "4": "I'm unsure if I'm up to it. That concerns me.", "5": "When it comes to something unknown like this, I'd rather have someone there to help me." } }, "131": { "question_text": "Would you want a friendship with you?", "answers": { "1": "Yes. I believe that I bring a lot with me and can enrich others.", "2": "Probably yes. I have a lot to offer, even if I'm not perfect.", "3": "I think so, but sometimes I wonder if I'm really good enough.", "4": "Rather not. There are parts of me that I sometimes find difficult.", "5": "Honestly, no. I have a hard time seeing myself as an asset to others." } }, "132": { "question_text": "How would you describe yourself socially?", "answers": { "1": "I am actively looking for contact. I approach people and initiate conversations.", "2": "I thrive in conversation when people talk to me. Others like to take the first step.", "3": "Balanced. Sometimes lively, sometimes calm, depending on the mood and the group.", "4": "Rather calm. I prefer to listen and say something specifically when it counts.", "5": "I don't need much socializing. I feel most comfortable alone or with someone.", "6": "Society tends to be stressful for me, so I avoid it." } }, "133": { "question_text": "Your travel bag breaks shortly before departure and check-in closes in 5 minutes. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I immediately look at what I have on hand and look for a creative solution. Something always works.", "2": "I quickly ask someone nearby if they can help me.", "3": "I go to check-in, explain the situation and hope that they have a solution.", "4": "I notice panic and desperation rising within me. I can't think clearly anymore.", "5": "I just don't know what to do and accept that I can't check in." } }, "134": { "question_text": "You're having dinner with friends. At the next table, a small child turns to you, beams at you and starts faxing you. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I'll join in immediately. Make faces, play back, I enjoy it.", "2": "I smile warmly back and let myself get involved in the game for a moment.", "3": "I nod to the child and watch him briefly, but don't start playing.", "4": "I smile warmly, but soon turn back to my table. I'm not particularly attracted to children.", "5": "I hardly notice it or find it rather annoying." } }, "135": { "question_text": "You are under pressure for a long time. How do you deal with it?", "answers": { "1": "I grit my teeth and carry on. Pressure is part of it.", "2": "I'm looking for balance. Sport, nature, exercise.", "3": "I'll talk about it and hand it over. Sharing made easier.", "4": "I consciously withdraw. Silence and solitude help me process.", "5": "I'm looking for help. With friends, professionals or both.", "6": "I draw strength from my faith or a spiritual practice. Prayer, meditation, reconnection." } }, "136": { "question_text": "When you wake up in the morning, what is your basic mood?", "answers": { "1": "Mostly in a good mood. I'm looking forward to the day and what it brings.", "2": "Calm and content. I find joy more in the little things of the day.", "3": "It really depends on the day. Sometimes full of momentum, sometimes it's better to stay lying down.", "4": "I'm more of a slow starter. I need time to get going.", "5": "I'm often not quite there in the morning. The momentum tends to come over the course of the day." } }, "137": { "question_text": "Your partner asks you in the evening: “How was your day really?” What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I am happy and will tell you in detail what happened and how I felt.", "2": "I'll tell you what happened. Facts and events, less feelings.", "3": "I'll take a moment and then tell you what I find within myself.", "4": "To be honest, there isn't much to tell. I prefer to live in the moment rather than process it internally. So I'll just say \"good.\"", "5": "I don't particularly like sharing my experiences." } }, "138": { "question_text": "Do you believe that people can fundamentally change?", "answers": { "1": "Yes. Anyone who really wants to change can do it on their own initiative. No external impetus is needed for this.", "2": "Yes, but usually only through something drastic. A loss, a collapse, a real shock.", "3": "Behavior can change permanently. Habits, priorities, dealing with others. But the essence underneath remains the same.", "4": "No. In the short term, everyone seems different at times, but in the end everyone remains who they always were at their core. This is what my experience shows me." } }, "139": { "question_text": "You want to cook with friends. Someone went shopping and got the wrong ingredients, which means the dish they were planning falls through. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "Nothing more. We laugh about it and do something different with it.", "2": "Shortly it's a shame, but not an issue. Mishaps happen, we improvise.", "3": "I think my part, but remain friendly.", "4": "I complain and send him shopping again.", "5": "Something like that can really piss me off. I can be loud or harsh." } }, "140": { "question_text": "Your toilet is no longer flushing properly. It no longer drips or rinses off. What is your first impulse?", "answers": { "1": "Open the lid, I'll take a look for myself. I'm confident of that.", "2": "Briefly unsure, but I'll go for it.", "3": "I try, but suspect that I'm reaching the limit.", "4": "Call a professional. That's what they're there for.", "5": "Hands off. If anything, I'll make it worse." } }, "141": { "question_text": "An appointment falls through, the afternoon is suddenly free and nothing needs to be done. What are you doing?", "answers": { "1": "Get started right away. I fill the time with something productive: a plan, a project, something upcoming.", "2": "Make a conscious decision to do something. Not a must, but I like to do something with the time. Do, undertake or tackle something that seems sensible to me at the moment.", "3": "Let it come to me. Maybe I'll tackle something, maybe I'll just drift along.", "4": "Rest me. Put your feet up, switch off, and simply enjoy your free time." } }, "142": { "question_text": "You sit relaxed on the sofa in the evening. Nothing is pending, no outstanding worries, no one wants anything from you. What does your head do on its own?", "answers": { "1": "Continues to run at full speed. Plans, calculates, spins ideas all by yourself.", "2": "Continue working quietly. One thought leads to the next when something bothers me.", "3": "Sometimes like this; sometimes like that. Sometimes further, sometimes silent.", "4": "Come to rest. I'm just there." } }, "143": { "question_text": "Your partner is in a silly mood, teasing you, making nonsense, tickling you and making stupid jokes. How do you usually react?", "answers": { "1": "I'm often the one who starts it myself. For me, fooling around is part of love.", "2": "I like to join in when he starts. I enjoy these light moments, even if I'm rarely the trigger.", "3": "I smile and join in for a moment, but actually the silly thing isn't really my thing.", "4": "It's often too childish for me. I prefer things calm and quiet between us.", "5": "I don't have much experience with it yet. I don't know exactly how I would react to that." } }, "144": { "question_text": "You're sitting at dinner with someone. What makes a good conversation for you?", "answers": { "1": "That we laugh and the evening is easy.", "2": "That we talk about our surroundings and everyday life. What's happening right now, what's bothering me.", "3": "That we talk about feelings. What things do to us and what really moves us.", "4": "That we discuss socially relevant topics. Politics, culture, what's moving the world right now.", "5": "That ideas and opinions meet and that I then learn something new.", "6": "When language, abstraction and philosophy come into play. Meta-level conversations that ask the question behind the question." } }, "145": { "question_text": "You're listening to two people on the train talking about a new political movement from another country. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "It grabs me. I listen carefully, research on my cell phone at the same time and read about it later at home.", "2": "I'm listening with interest. I find something like that exciting, even if I don't know it.", "3": "I listen for a while, depending on how exciting they make it.", "4": "I notice it in passing, but it doesn't draw me in.", "5": "I tend to ignore things like that. Such topics mean little to me." } }, "146": { "question_text": "You didn't behave the way you expected yourself to in a difficult situation. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "No problem, I live in the moment and prefer to look forward.", "2": "I think about it for a moment and then check it out.", "3": "I take it to heart. It's affecting me emotionally and I've been struggling with it for a while.", "4": "I go through such moments internally and try to understand why I reacted the way I did.", "5": "I analyze it systematically. Patterns, triggers and what lies behind them." } }, "147": { "question_text": "Your partner asks you: “How are things between us right now?” No argument, just like that. What is happening inside you?", "answers": { "1": "I'm getting restless inside. Questions like this make me feel like something is wrong.", "2": "I don't really understand the point. If everything is good, there's no need for that.", "3": "I'll go into it, but I wouldn't think of it on my own.", "4": "I appreciate conversations like this. They make me feel like we're both looking.", "5": "I'm grateful that my partner does it and I do the same in reverse." } }, "148": { "question_text": "What primarily motivates you in a discussion?", "answers": { "1": "Be understood. I want the other person to understand what I feel and have experienced.", "2": "Convince. I am convinced of my position and want to convey that.", "3": "Find a solution. I'm less interested in who's right than in what works.", "4": "Uncover the contradiction. I'm looking for the gap in the argument.", "5": "Show the root. Not what the problem is but why it exists in the first place." } }, "149": { "question_text": "What really makes you laugh?", "answers": { "1": "When life itself becomes absurd. Situations that are just too strange to be true.", "2": "When someone can laugh at themselves. For me, self-irony is the most likeable form of humor.", "3": "Clever puns and double meanings. Humor that arises in the mind.", "4": "Dark and black humor. The bolder the better.", "5": "Dry sarcasm. When the punchline isn't explained but just hangs.", "6": "Exuberant slapstick. Just laugh loudly and freely without thinking too much." } }, "150": { "question_text": "How do you prefer to communicate when it comes to everyday topics?", "answers": { "1": "Personal. I prefer face-to-face conversations.", "2": "Audio or video. I need a voice or a face to it.", "3": "Voice messages. The personal tone without the pressure of a phone call.", "4": "Text messages. Written, short, at my own pace.", "5": "Detailed in writing. I prefer to formulate calmly rather than speak spontaneously." } }, "151": { "question_text": "How do you speak up when something bothers you?", "answers": { "1": "Direct and immediate. I say what bothers me straight away.", "2": "I think for a moment and then say it very clearly.", "3": "I'll package it up, I'll say it so that it doesn't sound like criticism.", "4": "I hint and hope the other person understands.", "5": "I usually don't say anything. For me, harmony is more important than addressing the topic." } }, "152": { "question_text": "How do you deal with swearing?", "answers": { "1": "I swear regularly myself. For me, this is part of natural and authentic expression.", "2": "I occasionally swear when it's appropriate and I like it when others come out unfiltered.", "3": "I hardly swear, but it doesn't bother me when others do it depending on the situation.", "4": "I never swear and find constant swearing from others a bit of a shame.", "5": "Swearing bothers me. For me, well-groomed language is a sign of self-control and education." } }, "153": { "question_text": "You come across something that cannot be clearly explained. Two plausible answers, no clear solution. How are you doing with that?", "answers": { "1": "Honestly, I don't care most of the time. Things like that don't concern me.", "2": "I acknowledge it and move on. I don't have to understand everything.", "3": "I can live with the fact that some things remain open. That's part of it.", "4": "I like it when something is complex. I am often suspicious of clear answers.", "5": "I need an answer. Unanswered questions won't let me go until I've resolved them." } }, "154": { "question_text": "Someone close to you hurts you without even realizing it. What happens next?", "answers": { "1": "I'll address it. Better to be briefly uncomfortable than quietly distant.", "2": "I need some time to understand why the person acted the way they did and then decide how to deal with it.", "3": "I'll assume it wasn't meant that way and let it go honestly", "4": "I'll wait and see if the person notices it on their own and otherwise bring it up later.", "5": "I say nothing and accept it. Not every disappointment needs a conversation.", "6": "I distance myself internally and, if necessary, draw my own conclusions." } }, "155": { "question_text": "Someone you're close to is doing something really well. Are you telling him?", "answers": { "1": "Yes, immediately and directly. Giving praise is easy and gives me joy.", "2": "Yes, but sometimes I need a moment to find the right words.", "3": "I think so, but I find it difficult to say it. I prefer to show appreciation through actions.", "4": "Not necessarily. I don't like giving praise. Not complaining is praise enough, the people around me know that." } }, "156": { "question_text": "What makes you feel most deeply loved?", "answers": { "1": "Through words.", "2": "Through real presence and attention.", "3": "Through touch and physical closeness.", "4": "Through actions.", "5": "Through gifts.", "6": "Through all of it. I perceive love on many channels.", "7": "That doesn't play a big role for me. I don't need a specific shape." } }, "157": { "question_text": "What is the most natural way to show love?", "answers": { "1": "With words.", "2": "With time and presence.", "3": "With touch.", "4": "With actions.", "5": "With gifts.", "6": "In many ways. Depending on what suits you.", "7": "I rarely actively express love. That's not particularly my thing." } }, "158": { "question_text": "You think about your partner during the day. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I text or call simply because my partner is on my mind.", "2": "I think so and enjoy it. But let me know if there is a specific reason.", "3": "If my partner gets in touch, I'll get in touch too. Depending on whether it fits into my schedule.", "4": "We'll see each other. To be honest, I don't see much point in seeking extra contact every now and then.", "5": "I'm often very busy during the day. I simply don't think about actively reporting it." } }, "159": { "question_text": "You feel hurt or annoyed by your partner. Who is responsible for dealing with this?", "answers": { "1": "I. My feelings are my business. I process it and then get to the conversation.", "2": "Me, but I expect my partner to be attentive and ask if something is noticeably wrong.", "3": "Both of us. I talk about it and my partner helps me classify it.", "4": "Especially my partner. Anyone who has caused something should also help to make things better again.", "5": "I'm making it up to myself. I don't need my partner or anyone else to do it.", "6": "I can't assess that yet." } }, "160": { "question_text": "Can you think of a belief that you no longer see the same way you once did?", "answers": { "1": "Yes, several. I see it as a normal part of getting older.", "2": "Yes, but it took personal experience; no argument alone would have convinced me.", "3": "In details yes, in fundamentals not so much.", "4": "Barely. My basic posture is stable and I don't see that as a weakness.", "5": "Actually not. I stand by what I think and see no reason to change that." } }, "161": { "question_text": "How do you generally approach what you want to achieve in life?", "answers": { "1": "I set concrete goals and plan the steps. Structure gives me energy.", "2": "I have a clear direction, but no fixed milestones. I remain flexible.", "3": "I get started roughly and adjust as I go. A rigid plan would slow me down.", "4": "I don't set myself any fixed goals. I take opportunities when they arise rather than working towards something specific." } }, "162": { "question_text": "You are busy with something in the evening. Your partner comes to you and tells you something small that brought you joy. Nothing major, just casual. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I'll take my time immediately. I listen and ask questions.", "2": "I ask him for a moment, finish what I started, and then turn my attention completely.", "3": "I nod and signal that I'm listening, but stick to my point.", "4": "Little things in between get me out. I need my concentration and then react rather curtly." } }, "163": { "question_text": "Someone is writing you a message that needs an answer. You see them, but you don't feel like or have time to respond. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I'll answer straight away anyway, even if it's just briefly. The person should not wait.", "2": "I answer briefly that I'll get in touch later and then do so.", "3": "I'll answer as soon as I clear my head. Usually on the same day.", "4": "It may take time. Sometimes I miss messages without any malicious intent.", "5": "If I don't feel like it, I leave it alone. I'll get in touch when it's appropriate." } }, "164": { "question_text": "Someone close to you is strapped for cash again. Things regularly get tight at the end of the month, and not for the first time. The person tells you about it. What comes to mind first?", "answers": { "1": "What helps now. Where savings can be made or what could be arranged in the short term. The concrete thing that immediately creates air.", "2": "Where the money goes. What could be done about his expenses and habits so that things don't get tight again every month.", "3": "What's behind it. His whole relationship with money. For me, the core lies there, even if it is a delicate and uncomfortable matter." } }, "165": { "question_text": "How important is a partner’s physical appearance to you?", "answers": { "1": "Very important. Physical attraction is a basic requirement for me.", "2": "Important. I need a certain attraction, but it doesn't have to correspond to a certain ideal.", "3": "Less important than other things. I am more attracted to charisma and personality than appearances.", "4": "Hardly important. For me, attraction comes almost exclusively from the person, not from their appearance." } }, "166": { "question_text": "How important is physical closeness to you in everyday life? Touching, cuddling, physical contact apart from sexuality?", "answers": { "1": "Very important. For me, physical contact is a central way of showing and feeling affection. I'm actively looking for him.", "2": "Important. I really enjoy physical closeness, but I don't constantly seek it out.", "3": "Situational. Sometimes I need a lot of closeness, sometimes less.", "4": "I value physical closeness, but I like to dose it consciously. For me, some space is part of it.", "5": "I prefer to show and receive affection in other ways. Physical closeness in everyday life is not my thing.", "6": "I have little experience with this and can't assess it well yet." } }, "167": { "question_text": "How often do you want sex in a relationship?", "answers": { "1": "Daily or several times a day.", "2": "Several times a week.", "3": "About once a week.", "4": "Once or twice a month is enough for me.", "5": "Rarely. The need for me is generally low.", "6": "I have little experience and can't assess this well yet." } }, "168": { "question_text": "What is your primary focus on sex?", "answers": { "1": "Connection. For me, sex is the deepest expression of closeness and intimacy. Something I don't give to everyone.", "2": "Something instinctive and physical, without questioning it too much.", "3": "Passion and desire. The intense physical experience is my main focus.", "4": "Relaxation and fun. Sex helps me switch off and let go of stress.", "5": "To desire and be desired. Mutual desire is central to me.", "6": "Dominance and devotion. For me, playing with power and control is part of it.", "7": "I haven't thought much about it yet. It's just part of it." } }, "169": { "question_text": "Imagine that sex has been almost non-existent in your relationship for a few months. No argument, just fell asleep. What happens?", "answers": { "1": "I actively address it. For me, this is a topic that I cannot ignore for long.", "2": "I notice it and hope that it levels itself out again.", "3": "I miss it, but it doesn't endanger the relationship for me.", "4": "It would be a real reason for me to break up.", "5": "I live well with it. Closeness and intimacy also arise differently for me.", "6": "I have little experience with this and can't assess it well yet." } }, "170": { "question_text": "What best describes your idea of ​​fulfilled sexuality?", "answers": { "1": "Classic and familiar. I feel comfortable in the familiar.", "2": "Natural and connected. Two people who are really close to each other, with room for variety but without external aids.", "3": "Playful and experimental. Toys, new places, creativity and light fantasies. The focus is on fun and shared pleasure.", "4": "Conscious and spiritual. Sex as a deep, meditative experience. Tantra and conscious intimacy.", "5": "Intense and experience-oriented. For me this includes, for example, BDSM, intense fetishes or similar.", "6": "Open and social. Swinging, group experiences or sex with several people. For me that is part of sexuality.", "7": "I have little experience and can't assess this well yet.", "8": "None of these apply to me. Sexuality plays little or no role in my life." } }, "171": { "question_text": "How do you perceive your own body?", "answers": { "1": "I love everything about my body and feel attractive. That gives me confidence.", "2": "I find myself attractive, but I also see things that I would like to change. Both at the same time.", "3": "I'm basically at peace with my body, even if everything isn't perfect.", "4": "My body image concerns me. There are things that really bother me.", "5": "I don't give it much thought. My body is just there." } }, "172": { "question_text": "How do you deal with pornography in a relationship?", "answers": { "1": "I don't consume. What my partner does is his own business.", "2": "I consume privately and keep it to myself.", "3": "I consume and share it openly with my partner.", "4": "I like to watch it with my partner as a source of inspiration and pleasure.", "5": "I always actively integrate it into our sexuality.", "6": "I reject pornography for ethical or personal reasons and I don't want my partner to consume it." } }, "173": { "question_text": "How do you feel about tattoos and piercings?", "answers": { "1": "I love her. I have some myself and find them attractive in other people.", "2": "I don't have one, but I think it's beautiful and I'm open to a partner who has one.", "3": "Not mine, but it doesn't bother me with my partner.", "4": "I prefer a natural body without such changes for myself and my partner.", "5": "I reject her. For myself and my partner." } }, "174": { "question_text": "What best describes your look?", "answers": { "1": "Styled and flawless", "2": "Fashionable and eye-catching", "3": "Noble and timeless", "4": "Alternative and unconventional", "5": "Conventional and well-kept", "6": "Discreet and appropriate", "7": "Uncomplicated and convenient" } }, "175": { "question_text": "How do you deal with hygiene in everyday life?", "answers": { "1": "Hygiene is extremely important to me. Everything must be clean, fresh and well-maintained. Even several times a day if necessary.", "2": "I have a consistent daily routine. Shower daily, brush your teeth morning and evening, wear fresh clothes.", "3": "I have a basic routine, but no drama when it deviates from it.", "4": "I don't have a fixed routine. I shower when I sweat, change clothes when they need it. The situation determines.", "5": "I don't consciously pay attention to it." } }, "176": { "question_text": "How do you generally deal with money?", "answers": { "1": "Very conscious. I plan ahead, save carefully and consciously live within my means.", "2": "Considerately. I keep track, but don't pay attention to every single issue.", "3": "When I make big decisions I think about it, and in everyday life I also do something for myself.", "4": "I buy whatever I feel like. Money is there for life.", "5": "I find it difficult to deal with money. At the end of the month there is often little left, even though there should actually be enough.", "6": "My financial leeway is generally limited and I therefore have to forego a lot of things." } }, "177": { "question_text": "How does your money flow when you give voluntarily?", "answers": { "1": "I give willingly and generously. Tips, donations, gifts. That's part of it for me.", "2": "I give consciously and thoughtfully. It's important to me that it makes sense and is balanced.", "3": "I give when the situation suggests it, but I don't actively think about it.", "4": "I barely give. Nobody gives me anything either.", "5": "I would like to give more, but my budget doesn't allow it." } }, "178": { "question_text": "How do you deal with resources and food in everyday life?", "answers": { "1": "I live very consciously and conserve resources. I avoid plastic, don't throw away food and consume selectively.", "2": "I pay attention to the most important things, but I'm not fussy. I'm just doing my part.", "3": "I do it when the situation allows it, but I don't actively structure my everyday life accordingly.", "4": "To be honest, I don't think much about it. The topic is not particularly important to me.", "5": "I think the focus on this is exaggerated." } }, "179": { "question_text": "How are you dealing with your financial future?", "answers": { "1": "I plan actively and proactively. Reserves, retirement planning, long-term goals. That gives me security.", "2": "I have the issue on my radar and am taking care of it, but without overdoing it.", "3": "I know I should pay more attention to it, but it often stays put.", "4": "My assets are set up in such a way that I can delegate them or invest in the long term. Prevention in the classic sense is not an issue.", "5": "I prefer to live in the now. The future will emerge.", "6": "I would like to make provisions, but my financial flexibility doesn't allow it." } }, "180": { "question_text": "How do you imagine the financial structure in a relationship?", "answers": { "1": "Everything together. One shared account, full transparency. What is mine is yours.", "2": "A joint account for shared expenses, but everyone keeps their own account.", "3": "No joint account. We clarify who pays what depending on the situation.", "4": "I expect a partner to take primary financial responsibility.", "5": "For me, finances are a private matter, even in a relationship.", "6": "That depends largely on the situation. Income, stage of life, trust." } }, "181": { "question_text": "How do you generally feel about debt?", "answers": { "1": "A no-go. I avoid them wherever possible. Safety is more important to me.", "2": "Only for big and meaningful things like home ownership or education. I avoid consumer debt.", "3": "A normal tool. As long as I keep track, no problem.", "4": "Are part of life. I don't stress much about it." } }, "182": { "question_text": "At what net amount per month would you say “I am now financially free”?", "answers": { "1": "For me, freedom hardly depends on money. (up to approx. €2,000)", "2": "Once the necessities are covered, I feel free. (approx. €2,000–3,000)", "3": "A solid amount that I don't have to count on. (approx. €3,000–5,000)", "4": "Only when I have a lot of leeway do I really feel free. (approx. €5,000–7,000)", "5": "Free means: not having to think about it at all. (over €7,000)" } }, "183": { "question_text": "What does your circle of friends look like?", "answers": { "1": "I like having lots of people around me and actively making new contacts. I consciously invest in my social life.", "2": "I have a solid group that I've been going through everything with for years. They are my regular anchor in everyday life.", "3": "I have friendships that have simply developed and lasted over time. Reliable connections that are there.", "4": "I am sociable and always open to new things. I like to get to know new people as they come along, even if connections are lost along the way.", "5": "I have few but very close connections. Those who stay with me have proven themselves in difficult times.", "6": "I notice that a lot of social contact puts a strain on me. So I have occasional contacts, but not a close social network." } }, "184": { "question_text": "How important is it to you that your partner is integrated into your circle of friends?", "answers": { "1": "Very important. My partner should be part of my world. Friends and relationships belong together.", "2": "I assume that the right partner likes the same people as me. My partner is always welcome to be part of it.", "3": "It's nice if it fits, but not a must.", "4": "It's important to me that everyone keeps their own circle of friends. I like to separate this consciously.", "5": "I don't have a solid circle of friends that anyone could be integrated into." } }, "185": { "question_text": "How many people do you need to feel comfortable in everyday life?", "answers": { "1": "Many. Other people are my source of energy. The more connection, the more alive I feel.", "2": "I need people around me on a regular basis. Company makes my everyday life easier and more pleasant.", "3": "I need both. Sometimes silence, sometimes company. That's balanced.", "4": "Few but important ones. A small circle that I trust gives me everything I need.", "5": "I don't need any. Being alone is a real win for me. I come to myself and recharge in the silence." } }, "186": { "question_text": "Where do you prefer to live?", "answers": { "1": "City. I need infrastructure, culture, liveliness and short distances.", "2": "Urban but quiet. Good connections, yes, but without the noise and density of a big city.", "3": "Suburb or small town. Nature accessible, city not far.", "4": "Country. Peace, nature and spaciousness are more important to me than urban offerings.", "5": "Remote. I dream of a real retreat far away from the hustle and bustle.", "6": "On the way. Not having a fixed place of residence is not a problem for me, but rather freedom." } }, "187": { "question_text": "Could you give up the center of your life and move to another city, region or country for a partner?", "answers": { "1": "Yes, of course. For the right person I will move anywhere.", "2": "Yes, but the new place would have to suit me. Infrastructure, environment, quality of life.", "3": "Yes, but it would cost me a lot. Letting go of my social network would be the hardest part.", "4": "Hard to imagine. My job, my professional environment and the life I have built for myself here cannot easily be replicated.", "5": "Hard to imagine. My roots, my family and my circle of friends are my foundation and my home.", "6": "No. My place, my people and my job. This is my life and I don't want to give it up." } }, "188": { "question_text": "How close is your relationship with your family of origin?", "answers": { "1": "Very tight. Family comes first and I expect the same from my partner.", "2": "Tight but with clear boundaries. Family is important, but your own relationship takes priority.", "3": "Narrow due to duty or cultural expectation. Internally I keep more distance.", "4": "Distanced but respectful. I maintain contact without being heavily involved.", "5": "Hardly there. My family of origin doesn't play a big role in my life.", "6": "I deliberately broke off contact.", "7": "Charged. The relationship is difficult and that still affects me to this day." } } }